I've been so scared about it and concerned about my fiance since he too is a virgin.
If you're using latex condoms, do not use an oil-based lubricant.
It doesn't "break", but it can be damaged by anything from tampons, doing the splits, or when having sex or inserting larger objects in, which causes the pain most virgins feel.
Description: Why do I start to shake every time my boyfriend and I plan to have sex? You may not really be ready to have sex yet, or you may be scared.